Expectations

What’s a girl to do? When a decision you thought was so right and invested so much hope and expectation, what happens when it doesn’t turn out to be what you hoped for? What you dreamed about for so long is nothing more than a decision you end up regretting every day. Expectations can sometimes be the root of all evil. What happens if your expectations never take off and become reality? What’s a girl to do then? You make it happen. You do whatever it is in your power to change what’s making you unhappy. I’ve experienced what it’s like to have an unfulfilled expectation, and I was left with no other choice than to act and change it. I had to pick up and move back home. Swallow a big batch of humble pie, and go back to where I belong. Every girl is different, and therefore has different needs to fulfill, if your current situation is just not cutting it, then you cut it out and get up and do something. Inactivity breeds unfulfilled dreams, goals that are left unattained, and empty hearts. Never let a situation make you become inactive. It’s the worse feeling ever. The saying, “what is meant to be will come to pass” is so true yet so false at the same time. Of course, destiny, the invisible hand in our life that magically leads the way will somehow just solve it for us, yet if we have any control over the situation, we must exercise that control to its full extent. We must do everything in our power to alter that situation as we best see fit. What’s the point of being in control if you don’t act upon it? Our hearts should always be in control of what takes place in our life. Sure we are always being told to think with a clear mind, but what’s the use of acting rationally when your heart is telling you otherwise. What’s the use of even having a heart if we don’t give it the importance it deserves in our life. Let your heart be in control.