Sunday, October 12, 2008

Friendship

What’s a girl to do about friendship? Friends are such a crucial part to our happiness. Friends are those who are witnesses to every emotion and feeling that you experience. They are there when your having the most fun, being free and careless and they are there when life seems to be crumbling into little pieces. What do you do when the friends that are the most imperative people in your life have suddenly become distant? What do you do when you’ve let pride and the desire to be “right” get in the way of this supernatural bond you’ve created with this person? You do everything in your power to make it right. Because real friends can be counted with one hand. Real friends have those qualities that your heart desires in another person, qualities that you lack. They are angels that will lift you up when you feel like falling. They’ve been ordained by God to look after you. So when problems present themselves, you must leave your pride behind and try to amend the situation. There is no room for pride in a friendship. Because friendship is so pure of a bond, there is no room for pride, greed, deceit, or selfishness to exist. For a girl, friends become sisters, they share your every thought, fear, and happiness. They bring you back to reality when your living in a fantasy, and they will always tell you the truth. Yet in the end, friendship is a risk, you take a risk when you give people an all access pass to your life. Sometimes risks, turn into regrets. But what’s important is to always make sure that you never become a risk. Never become a friend that because of past failed relationship, has turned into someone that is completely void of their capability of becoming a good friend. Friendship is a privilege. When someone has bestowed upon you the right to be a part of their life, then that is something to be treasured forever. Life isn’t always a fantasy, that’s why you need friendships that are real to be with you in the end.

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